"I have learned more about love, selflessness and human understanding from the people I have met in this great adventure in the world of AIDS than I ever did in the cutthroat, competitive world in which I spent my life"
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The intent feels twofold. Publicly, it's an affirmation of the AIDS community at a time when mainstream culture treated it as contamination, punishment, or spectacle. Privately, it's a coded confession from an actor whose own persona was built on control and concealment. Perkins doesn't say "I was lonely" or "I was afraid"; he says he learned "love, selflessness and human understanding" - virtues that imply he found them where the market logic of fame doesn't incentivize them.
Subtext: the competitive world didn't just fail to teach empathy; it actively discouraged it. AIDS, in contrast, forced intimacy, mutual care, and a politics of attention - visiting, advocating, holding hands in hospital rooms when families and institutions wouldn't. Coming from Perkins, who died of AIDS-related illness in 1992, the line also reads as legacy management: refusing to be remembered as a cautionary tale, insisting instead on a final takeaway that indicts the industry's values and honors the people who replaced them with something sturdier.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Perkins, Anthony. (2026, January 16). I have learned more about love, selflessness and human understanding from the people I have met in this great adventure in the world of AIDS than I ever did in the cutthroat, competitive world in which I spent my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-more-about-love-selflessness-and-97791/
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Perkins, Anthony. "I have learned more about love, selflessness and human understanding from the people I have met in this great adventure in the world of AIDS than I ever did in the cutthroat, competitive world in which I spent my life." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-more-about-love-selflessness-and-97791/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have learned more about love, selflessness and human understanding from the people I have met in this great adventure in the world of AIDS than I ever did in the cutthroat, competitive world in which I spent my life." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-more-about-love-selflessness-and-97791/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.








