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Love Quote by Alice Walker

"I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart"

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Love, in Alice Walker's line, isn't a prize you clutch or a crisis you manage; it's weather. That pivot from "worry" to "honor" swaps the anxious, scarcity-minded posture we are trained into for something closer to spiritual discipline: attention, gratitude, readiness. Walker isn't romanticizing detachment. She's refusing the cultural script that treats love as a referendum on your worth, something you must secure through vigilance, performance, or self-erasure.

The sentence is built like a small conversion narrative. "I have learned" signals hard-won knowledge, the kind acquired through disappointment, survival, and recalibration. The phrase "not to worry" implies she has worried - deeply - and found the worry both ineffective and corrosive. Then comes the real provocation: love is not owed, not controllable, not guaranteed. It "comes". Agency shifts away from the speaker's grasping and toward a receptive stance that still demands courage: "with all my heart". Totality is the risk. You can't honor love halfway.

In Walker's broader context - a writer whose work insists on the dignity of Black women's interior lives, and on healing without sentimental lies - the subtext reads as self-protection that doesn't calcify into numbness. It's a mature ethic: stop bargaining with the future, stop policing intimacy into safety, and meet the real thing when it arrives with full presence. Not because it will last, but because it matters while it's here.

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Alice Walker

Alice Walker (born February 9, 1944) is a Author from USA.

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