"I have learned that to be with those I like is enough"
About this Quote
"I have learned" carries its own quiet drama. This isn’t naive sentimentality; it’s the aftertaste of experience, the hard-won conclusion of someone who has tried other currencies and found them overvalued. Whitman often wrote as the poet of the crowd, the ferry, the street - intimacy without exclusivity. So "those I like" is pointedly democratic. Not family, not tribe, not the officially sanctioned "good people". Liking is personal, bodily, idiosyncratic. It honors the actual chemistry of companionship rather than the obligations of duty.
The line also smuggles in a broader politics. In Whitman’s America - fracturing, industrializing, re-sorting itself by class and race - fellowship becomes a counter-program. Presence is the antidote to alienation. He’s not describing a retreat from the world so much as a refusal to let the world dictate the terms of value. The subtext: if you can secure genuine company, you’ve already beaten the system that sells you everything else.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Verified source: Leaves of Grass (1855 first edition): "I Sing the Body El... (Walt Whitman, 1855)
Evidence: I have perceiv'd that to be with those I like is enough, (Section 4 (later editions); page unknown for the 1855 printing from the sources retrieved). The commonly circulated quote is often modernized/paraphrased as “I have learned that to be with those I like is enough,” but Whitman’s wording in his poem is “I have perceiv'd…”. In the Walt Whitman Archive transcription of the poem “I SING THE BODY ELECTRIC.” (Leaves of Grass, 1891–1892 edition), the line appears in section 4 exactly as: “I have perceiv'd that to be with those I like is enough,” followed by additional lines expanding the thought. The earliest publication of the poem itself is in the first edition of Leaves of Grass (1855), so the quote’s first publication is in that 1855 book, even though the Archive page shown is the later ‘deathbed’ edition text. Other candidates (1) I Love Myself: Over 1,700 Words of Wisdom to Inspire You ... (The Success Makers, 2017) compilation95.0% ... I have learned that to be with those I like is enough . - Walt Whitman , American Poet The miracle is not that we... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Whitman, Walt. (2026, February 27). I have learned that to be with those I like is enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/
Chicago Style
Whitman, Walt. "I have learned that to be with those I like is enough." FixQuotes. February 27, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have learned that to be with those I like is enough." FixQuotes, 27 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/. Accessed 23 Mar. 2026.










