"I have learned that to be with those I like is enough"
About this Quote
"I have learned" carries its own quiet drama. This isn’t naive sentimentality; it’s the aftertaste of experience, the hard-won conclusion of someone who has tried other currencies and found them overvalued. Whitman often wrote as the poet of the crowd, the ferry, the street - intimacy without exclusivity. So "those I like" is pointedly democratic. Not family, not tribe, not the officially sanctioned "good people". Liking is personal, bodily, idiosyncratic. It honors the actual chemistry of companionship rather than the obligations of duty.
The line also smuggles in a broader politics. In Whitman’s America - fracturing, industrializing, re-sorting itself by class and race - fellowship becomes a counter-program. Presence is the antidote to alienation. He’s not describing a retreat from the world so much as a refusal to let the world dictate the terms of value. The subtext: if you can secure genuine company, you’ve already beaten the system that sells you everything else.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | Walt Whitman, "Specimen Days" (1882) — commonly cited line: "I have learned that to be with those I like is enough". |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Whitman, Walt. (2026, January 14). I have learned that to be with those I like is enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/
Chicago Style
Whitman, Walt. "I have learned that to be with those I like is enough." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have learned that to be with those I like is enough." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learned-that-to-be-with-those-i-like-is-28986/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









