"I have learnt that I am me, that I can do the things that, as one might put it, me can do, but I cannot do the things that me would like to do"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of wishful selfhood. Chambers is suspicious of the gap between aspiration and ability because that gap is where pride breeds. "Would like" is the tell: desire becomes its own alibi, a way to feel righteous about what you haven't actually done. By contrast, "can do" points to the sober inventory of what obedience, discipline, or grace might realistically make possible. It's not anti-ambition; it's anti-fantasy.
Context matters. Writing in the early 20th century, amid a rising culture of self-improvement and individual willpower, Chambers (best known for My Utmost for His Highest, published posthumously) frames identity less as self-expression and more as self-surrender. The line reads like a devotional check on modern autonomy: you are not infinitely malleable, and pretending otherwise isn't liberation. It's a quieter, more severe mercy - accept the actual "me" so you can stop worshipping the imaginary one.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Chambers, Oswald. (2026, January 18). I have learnt that I am me, that I can do the things that, as one might put it, me can do, but I cannot do the things that me would like to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learnt-that-i-am-me-that-i-can-do-the-1165/
Chicago Style
Chambers, Oswald. "I have learnt that I am me, that I can do the things that, as one might put it, me can do, but I cannot do the things that me would like to do." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learnt-that-i-am-me-that-i-can-do-the-1165/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have learnt that I am me, that I can do the things that, as one might put it, me can do, but I cannot do the things that me would like to do." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-learnt-that-i-am-me-that-i-can-do-the-1165/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.










