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Love & Passion Quote by Florence Nightingale

"I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have"

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Nightingale doesn’t just shatter Victorian decorum here; she does it with a surgeon’s relish for the incision. The opening move is status whiplash: English countesses to Prussian farm women, the whole class system collapsed into one shared bed. It’s deliberately intimate, almost scandal-ready, and that’s the point. She’s claiming a life lived in the seams of society, where women’s labor, bodies, and confidences are exchanged outside the official narratives men wrote about “ladies” and “peasants.”

Then she detonates the real charge: “no woman has excited passions among women more than I have.” This isn’t coy. It’s a dare. In a culture that insisted respectable female relationships were either frivolous or maternal, Nightingale asserts female desire and female devotion as major historical forces. The phrasing is boastful on purpose, not because she’s bragging about charm, but because she’s refusing the era’s only acceptable explanation for her influence: saintliness. She’s saying her power with women was visceral, not merely moral.

The context matters: Nightingale was an activist and institution-builder who depended on networks of women for nursing reform, fundraising, staffing, and political leverage. Her public image was often flattened into “the Lady with the Lamp,” a tidy icon that neutralized her ambition. This quote pushes back, suggesting that the engine of her work wasn’t solitary heroism but charged female allegiance - cross-class, physically proximate, and intense enough to unsettle the category of “passion” itself.

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Nightingale, Florence. (2026, January 14). I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/

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Nightingale, Florence. "I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/.

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"I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Florence Nightingale (May 12, 1820 - August 13, 1910) was a Activist from United Kingdom.

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