"I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have"
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Then she detonates the real charge: “no woman has excited passions among women more than I have.” This isn’t coy. It’s a dare. In a culture that insisted respectable female relationships were either frivolous or maternal, Nightingale asserts female desire and female devotion as major historical forces. The phrasing is boastful on purpose, not because she’s bragging about charm, but because she’s refusing the era’s only acceptable explanation for her influence: saintliness. She’s saying her power with women was visceral, not merely moral.
The context matters: Nightingale was an activist and institution-builder who depended on networks of women for nursing reform, fundraising, staffing, and political leverage. Her public image was often flattened into “the Lady with the Lamp,” a tidy icon that neutralized her ambition. This quote pushes back, suggesting that the engine of her work wasn’t solitary heroism but charged female allegiance - cross-class, physically proximate, and intense enough to unsettle the category of “passion” itself.
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Nightingale, Florence. (2026, January 14). I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/
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Nightingale, Florence. "I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have lived and slept in the same bed with English countesses and Prussian farm women... no woman has excited passions among women more than I have." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-lived-and-slept-in-the-same-bed-with-59169/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.



