"I have never appreciated a quiet moment with a friend as much, a quiet moment with a book, and I think part of that is my obsession with being older and time going faster, and it's become increasingly sweeter for me"
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The “quiet moment” does double duty. On the surface it’s cozy, domestic, almost old-fashioned. Underneath, it reads like a hard-won counterprogramming for a life spent in performance and noise: sets, publicity, constant social attention. An actress praising quiet isn’t just a lifestyle preference; it’s a small rebellion against a career built on being watched. Pairing “a friend” with “a book” makes the point sharper: both are forms of intimacy that don’t require you to sell a version of yourself. You can be present without being on.
Her “obsession with being older” is the sly confession. It suggests ambition redirected: not chasing youth, but chasing the vantage point age provides. The subtext is that time’s speed isn’t only loss; it’s scarcity doing what scarcity does best - making the ordinary feel consequential. “Sweeter” lands because it’s not grand or dramatic. It’s sensory. Bergen isn’t romanticizing aging; she’s describing how the stakes quietly rise, and how that raises the flavor of a simple hour into something you actually taste.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Bergen, Candice. (2026, February 19). I have never appreciated a quiet moment with a friend as much, a quiet moment with a book, and I think part of that is my obsession with being older and time going faster, and it's become increasingly sweeter for me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-appreciated-a-quiet-moment-with-a-46613/
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Bergen, Candice. "I have never appreciated a quiet moment with a friend as much, a quiet moment with a book, and I think part of that is my obsession with being older and time going faster, and it's become increasingly sweeter for me." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-appreciated-a-quiet-moment-with-a-46613/.
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"I have never appreciated a quiet moment with a friend as much, a quiet moment with a book, and I think part of that is my obsession with being older and time going faster, and it's become increasingly sweeter for me." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-appreciated-a-quiet-moment-with-a-46613/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.




