"I have never known the time when I did not wear stays. My stays are part of me"
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The subtext is sharpened by the era. In the late 19th and early 20th century, the corset was both technology and ideology: engineering the fashionable silhouette while disciplining the body into acceptable femininity. Held, as a celebrated entertainer in a publicity-hungry culture, understood that femininity could be manufactured, then marketed as innate. “Part of me” turns constraint into essence, reframing an imposed structure as personal choice. That’s not naivete; it’s strategy. If the audience believes the shape is natural, the fantasy sells better.
There’s also an early modern celebrity logic here: the brand extends to the bones. Held’s public persona was built on glamour, flirtation, and controlled exposure, and the stays symbolize the hidden labor behind “effortless” allure. The line normalizes discomfort as baseline, even comfortingly so - a reminder that for women on stage (and women watching), the price of being seen often includes being bound. In one sentence, Held turns a tightening garment into a myth of selfhood, and quietly reveals how culture teaches people to love the cage that makes them legible.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Held, Anna. (2026, January 16). I have never known the time when I did not wear stays. My stays are part of me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-known-the-time-when-i-did-not-wear-119295/
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Held, Anna. "I have never known the time when I did not wear stays. My stays are part of me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-known-the-time-when-i-did-not-wear-119295/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have never known the time when I did not wear stays. My stays are part of me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-known-the-time-when-i-did-not-wear-119295/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






