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War & Peace Quote by Hedy Lamarr

"I have never seen a wrestling match or a prize fight, and I don't want to. When I find out a man is interested in these sports, I drop him"

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Lamarr’s line lands like a door being shut: not a critique of violence in the abstract, but a blunt social filter. She’s not merely uninterested in wrestling or boxing; she’s staging disinterest as a kind of moral taste test. The swipe at “these sports” doubles as a swipe at the culture that celebrates them - loud, physical, populist, coded as male. Her punchiest move is the escalation from “I don’t want to” to “I drop him,” turning preference into policy. It reads less like prudishness than boundary-setting in an industry where women were expected to be agreeable, amused, and game for whatever men liked.

The subtext is class and control. Midcentury fight culture wasn’t just entertainment; it was a proving ground for masculinity, a place where power is made visible and cheered. Lamarr’s refusal functions as resistance to that script. She’s asserting that attraction isn’t automatic, that “manliness” performed through sanctioned brutality doesn’t earn her attention; it loses it. That’s a surprisingly modern stance from a star often framed as pure glamour.

Context matters: Hollywood sold Lamarr as an exquisite surface, while her real life involved escape, reinvention, and the constant management of men’s appetites - on screen and off. The line also hints at how she curated her world to preserve autonomy: if a man’s leisure centers on ritualized domination, she’s not waiting to be treated like another spectator, or another object in the ring.

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Lamarr, Hedy. (2026, January 17). I have never seen a wrestling match or a prize fight, and I don't want to. When I find out a man is interested in these sports, I drop him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-seen-a-wrestling-match-or-a-prize-50458/

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Lamarr, Hedy. "I have never seen a wrestling match or a prize fight, and I don't want to. When I find out a man is interested in these sports, I drop him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-seen-a-wrestling-match-or-a-prize-50458/.

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"I have never seen a wrestling match or a prize fight, and I don't want to. When I find out a man is interested in these sports, I drop him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-never-seen-a-wrestling-match-or-a-prize-50458/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Hedy Lamarr

Hedy Lamarr (November 9, 1914 - January 19, 2000) was a Actress from Austria.

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