"I have no way of knowing how people really feel, but the vast majority of those I meet couldn't be nicer. Every once in a while someone barks at me. My New Year's resolution is not to bark back"
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Then comes the quiet argument: despite the churn of online outrage and cable-news caricature, "the vast majority" are pleasant in person. That line isn’t just about manners; it’s a rebuke to the idea that politics has turned Americans into permanent enemies. It also functions as personal brand repair. If most people are nice to him, the implication is that his real-world reception is warmer than his media reputation suggests, and that the loudest hatred is overrepresented.
The "barks" metaphor does a lot of work. It turns confrontation into animal noise: instinctive, unthinking, not quite human. That framing flatters the speaker as civilized while reducing critics to impulsive yelpers. The New Year’s resolution - not to bark back - is both confession and ad copy. It nods to his known talent for counterpunching while hinting at growth, restraint, maybe even grace.
Context matters: a polarizing TV figure is describing everyday encounters as mostly cordial, subtly inviting the audience to distrust the mediated version of conflict while still keeping the door open to seeing himself as targeted. It’s conciliation with a hook.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carlson, Tucker. (2026, January 16). I have no way of knowing how people really feel, but the vast majority of those I meet couldn't be nicer. Every once in a while someone barks at me. My New Year's resolution is not to bark back. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-no-way-of-knowing-how-people-really-feel-129461/
Chicago Style
Carlson, Tucker. "I have no way of knowing how people really feel, but the vast majority of those I meet couldn't be nicer. Every once in a while someone barks at me. My New Year's resolution is not to bark back." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-no-way-of-knowing-how-people-really-feel-129461/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have no way of knowing how people really feel, but the vast majority of those I meet couldn't be nicer. Every once in a while someone barks at me. My New Year's resolution is not to bark back." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-no-way-of-knowing-how-people-really-feel-129461/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




