"I have not been that wise. Health I have taken for granted. Love I have demanded, perhaps too much and too often. As for money, I have only realized its true worth when I didn't have it"
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"Health I have taken for granted" is the most brutal admission because it’s the most ordinary. It suggests the body as a backstage crew you ignore until it stops the show. Then comes the thornier confession: "Love I have demanded". Demanded is a loaded verb for an actress whose image was built on desirability. The subtext is about power: when you’re constantly wanted, it’s easy to confuse attention with care, and to treat affection like a contractual obligation rather than a gift. "Perhaps too much and too often" adds a self-aware wince - not self-pity, but recognition of a pattern.
Money arrives last, not as greed but as humiliating education: you only learn its "true worth" in its absence. From a woman who was both a bankable star and an under-credited inventor, that’s an indictment of an industry that commodifies people while leaving them financially and professionally precarious. Lamarr’s intent feels less like confession for absolution than a corrective to the audience: stop worshipping the shine; look at the bill.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lamarr, Hedy. (2026, January 15). I have not been that wise. Health I have taken for granted. Love I have demanded, perhaps too much and too often. As for money, I have only realized its true worth when I didn't have it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-not-been-that-wise-health-i-have-taken-for-144007/
Chicago Style
Lamarr, Hedy. "I have not been that wise. Health I have taken for granted. Love I have demanded, perhaps too much and too often. As for money, I have only realized its true worth when I didn't have it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-not-been-that-wise-health-i-have-taken-for-144007/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have not been that wise. Health I have taken for granted. Love I have demanded, perhaps too much and too often. As for money, I have only realized its true worth when I didn't have it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-not-been-that-wise-health-i-have-taken-for-144007/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








