"I have noticed that when things happen in one's imaginings, they never happen in one's life"
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The phrasing matters. "Noticed" frames it as an earned, slightly weary discovery rather than a moral lecture. "One's imaginings" keeps the tone general, but the intimacy of "one's life" brings the sting home. It’s not that imagination is powerless; it’s that it’s powerful enough to substitute for action, to create an illusion of progress: the apology drafted but never delivered, the brave choice played out but never risked.
In the context of a woman writing across a century that punished certain ambitions and rewarded decorum, the line can read as both warning and lament. Imagination becomes a refuge when the world is tight-fisted with permission. Smith’s subtext: art is a safe stage, but safety can curdle into postponement. If you want something to happen, stop letting it "happen" where it can’t hurt you.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smith, Dodie. (2026, January 17). I have noticed that when things happen in one's imaginings, they never happen in one's life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-noticed-that-when-things-happen-in-ones-43030/
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Smith, Dodie. "I have noticed that when things happen in one's imaginings, they never happen in one's life." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-noticed-that-when-things-happen-in-ones-43030/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have noticed that when things happen in one's imaginings, they never happen in one's life." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-noticed-that-when-things-happen-in-ones-43030/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










