"I have noticed that when things happen in one's imaginings, they never happen in one's life"
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Smith slips a pin into a balloon most of us keep quietly inflated: the belief that rehearsing a life in our heads somehow counts as living it. As a dramatist, she knew the seduction of imagined scenes better than anyone. In theatre, you can make consequences land on cue; in private fantasy, you can rerun the moment until you get the perfect line. Her observation is almost wryly clinical: when events "happen" in imagination, they’re satisfying precisely because they cost nothing. That satisfaction becomes the trap. The mind cashes the emotional check early, and the body never makes the withdrawal.
The phrasing matters. "Noticed" frames it as an earned, slightly weary discovery rather than a moral lecture. "One's imaginings" keeps the tone general, but the intimacy of "one's life" brings the sting home. It’s not that imagination is powerless; it’s that it’s powerful enough to substitute for action, to create an illusion of progress: the apology drafted but never delivered, the brave choice played out but never risked.
In the context of a woman writing across a century that punished certain ambitions and rewarded decorum, the line can read as both warning and lament. Imagination becomes a refuge when the world is tight-fisted with permission. Smith’s subtext: art is a safe stage, but safety can curdle into postponement. If you want something to happen, stop letting it "happen" where it can’t hurt you.
The phrasing matters. "Noticed" frames it as an earned, slightly weary discovery rather than a moral lecture. "One's imaginings" keeps the tone general, but the intimacy of "one's life" brings the sting home. It’s not that imagination is powerless; it’s that it’s powerful enough to substitute for action, to create an illusion of progress: the apology drafted but never delivered, the brave choice played out but never risked.
In the context of a woman writing across a century that punished certain ambitions and rewarded decorum, the line can read as both warning and lament. Imagination becomes a refuge when the world is tight-fisted with permission. Smith’s subtext: art is a safe stage, but safety can curdle into postponement. If you want something to happen, stop letting it "happen" where it can’t hurt you.
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