"I have observed that for people who have that, you're born with a problem, because the way our society is made, you have to function, and you're not here to feel things"
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The bluntness of “you have to function” gives the quote its sting. “Function” is the language of machines and workplaces, not inner lives. It suggests a society calibrated for performance: be reliable, be productive, keep moving, don’t spill. Then comes the sharper twist: “you’re not here to feel things”. She’s not literally denying human feeling; she’s describing the unspoken social instruction. Feelings are tolerated only if they’re manageable, aesthetically pleasing, and conveniently timed. Grief gets a few days off; anxiety gets an app; joy is fine as long as it doesn’t interrupt the meeting.
As an actress, Krieps is also talking from inside a profession that monetizes emotion while punishing it off-camera. You’re hired to access vulnerability on cue, then expected to snap back into professionalism, brand safety, and “function”. The subtext is a critique of modern emotional labor: society wants the benefits of feeling - empathy, art, connection - without paying the cost of making space for it. Her “problem” isn’t being too sensitive. It’s living in a world that treats sensitivity as a scheduling conflict.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mental Health |
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| Source | Metrograph interview (Journal), 2023 |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Krieps, Vicky. (2026, February 16). I have observed that for people who have that, you're born with a problem, because the way our society is made, you have to function, and you're not here to feel things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-observed-that-for-people-who-have-that-185566/
Chicago Style
Krieps, Vicky. "I have observed that for people who have that, you're born with a problem, because the way our society is made, you have to function, and you're not here to feel things." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-observed-that-for-people-who-have-that-185566/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have observed that for people who have that, you're born with a problem, because the way our society is made, you have to function, and you're not here to feel things." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-observed-that-for-people-who-have-that-185566/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








