"I have often noticed that ancestors never boast of the descendants who boast of ancestors. I would rather start a family than finish one. Blood will tell, but often it tells too much"
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“I would rather start a family than finish one” sharpens the critique into an ethic. Starting a family means earning significance forward, creating something that didn’t exist. Finishing one suggests living off inherited status until the name becomes a museum label: preserved, admired, and functionally dead. There’s a specifically American sting here from a journalist writing in an era when old-stock social hierarchies were colliding with immigrant dynamism and Gilded Age money. The joke is also a social diagnosis: meritocracy is messy, so people reach for bloodlines as a shortcut to legitimacy.
Then Marquis lands the kicker: “Blood will tell, but often it tells too much.” The proverb usually flatters heredity as destiny; he flips it into a warning. Blood doesn’t just “tell” nobility or grit - it also tattles on the unromantic stuff families pass down: entitlement, hypocrisy, cruelty, the private rot behind public names. The subtext is brutal: if you’re bragging about your ancestors, you may be advertising exactly the sort of inheritance you should be trying to outgrow.
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Marquis, Don. (2026, January 15). I have often noticed that ancestors never boast of the descendants who boast of ancestors. I would rather start a family than finish one. Blood will tell, but often it tells too much. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-noticed-that-ancestors-never-boast-150471/
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Marquis, Don. "I have often noticed that ancestors never boast of the descendants who boast of ancestors. I would rather start a family than finish one. Blood will tell, but often it tells too much." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-noticed-that-ancestors-never-boast-150471/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have often noticed that ancestors never boast of the descendants who boast of ancestors. I would rather start a family than finish one. Blood will tell, but often it tells too much." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-noticed-that-ancestors-never-boast-150471/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.







