"I have often wanted to drown my troubles, but I can't get my wife to go swimming"
About this Quote
Coming from Jimmy Carter, it reads less like menace and more like a pressure valve. Carter’s public persona was earnest, pious, self-disciplined - the opposite of the roguish, bourbon-soaked politician. That mismatch is the point. When a leader associated with moral seriousness reaches for gallows humor, it signals something about the emotional climate leaders inhabit: you’re expected to project calm while privately carrying irritations, disappointments, even flashes of resentment you’d never confess straight.
The subtext is also about the permitted vocabulary of male frustration in his era. You can’t say "I feel trapped" or "I’m overwhelmed", but you can smuggle the feeling in through a joke that pretends to be about swimming. It’s a small, domestic riff with a presidential aftertaste: even the kindly ones are negotiating the gap between the image of virtue and the messy, human impulse to escape.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: FOR YOU, MY HERO (Lisa Malooly, 2024) modern compilationISBN: 9798369422618 · ID: 684MEQAAQBAJ
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Lisa Malooly. • • " I always talk better lying down " ( James Madison , on his deathbed ) . " I have often wanted to drown my troubles , but I can't get my wife to go swimming " ( Jimmy Carter ) . George W. # 1 Two Georges George ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carter, Jimmy. (2026, February 9). I have often wanted to drown my troubles, but I can't get my wife to go swimming. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-wanted-to-drown-my-troubles-but-i-32027/
Chicago Style
Carter, Jimmy. "I have often wanted to drown my troubles, but I can't get my wife to go swimming." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-wanted-to-drown-my-troubles-but-i-32027/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have often wanted to drown my troubles, but I can't get my wife to go swimming." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-often-wanted-to-drown-my-troubles-but-i-32027/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












