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Art & Creativity Quote by Annette Bening

"I have perfected the art of putting my feet on my husband's lap during awards ceremonies so he can rub them"

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A movie-star marriage, stripped of its red-carpet sheen and reframed as a frankly transactional comfort ritual: Annette Bening turns the awards ceremony - that high-gloss temple of posture, scrutiny, and silent competition - into a place where her body gets to be cared for. The humor lands because it’s so undignified in the most human way. Feet are the least cinematic part of us, and she’s smuggling them into the most performative room in Hollywood.

“Perfected the art” is doing a lot of work. It suggests repetition, strategy, and a little bit of stealth: the choreography of intimacy inside a space designed to discipline you into elegance. It’s also a sly flex, not of status but of permission. She can do this because she’s secure - in her relationship, in her career, and in her ability to bend the script of public behavior without fear of being punished for it. That’s a specific kind of power in an industry that so often treats women’s bodies as public property but polices their needs as private inconveniences.

The subtext is almost anti-glamour, and that’s why it’s charming. Awards shows sell us aspiration; Bening offers maintenance. Underneath the joke is an insistence that partnership is not just supportive speeches and posed kisses, but small acts of service performed in plain sight. It’s also a gentle rebuke to the idea that prestige requires self-denial. Even in the spotlight, she’s making room for comfort, and making it funny on purpose - a way to disarm judgment before it arrives.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bening, Annette. (2026, January 16). I have perfected the art of putting my feet on my husband's lap during awards ceremonies so he can rub them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-perfected-the-art-of-putting-my-feet-on-my-110764/

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Bening, Annette. "I have perfected the art of putting my feet on my husband's lap during awards ceremonies so he can rub them." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-perfected-the-art-of-putting-my-feet-on-my-110764/.

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"I have perfected the art of putting my feet on my husband's lap during awards ceremonies so he can rub them." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-perfected-the-art-of-putting-my-feet-on-my-110764/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Annette Bening

Annette Bening (born May 29, 1958) is a Actress from USA.

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