"I have pretty thick skin, and I think if you're going to be in this business, if you're going to be an actor or a writer, you better have a thick skin"
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The repetition does the heavy lifting. By saying “thick skin” twice, Irving turns resilience from a nice-to-have into a structural necessity, like learning dialogue or mastering a sentence. The phrase “this business” is doing quiet, cynical work too. It frames literature and acting as industries, not sanctuaries, where gatekeepers, markets, and tastes exert pressure. That’s a novelist speaking with the pragmatism of someone who’s lived through publicity cycles, adaptation chatter, and the weird afterlife of a book once it leaves the author’s desk.
There’s subtext in the pairing of “actor or a writer.” Irving is a novelist, but he’s also long been entangled with cinema culture through adaptations of his work. He’s pointing to a shared ecosystem: performance and prose are different crafts, but both are evaluated in public, often brutally, and often with a confidence that outpaces comprehension. The conditional “if you’re going to be” lands like a warning: the world won’t adjust to your sensitivity; your sensitivity has to learn to survive the world.
Intent-wise, it’s less a pep talk than a boundary. Make the work, take the hits, keep going.
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| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
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"I have pretty thick skin, and I think if you're going to be in this business, if you're going to be an actor or a writer, you better have a thick skin." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-pretty-thick-skin-and-i-think-if-youre-99849/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.



