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Creativity Quote by Ethel Waters

"I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty"

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Shyness, in Ethel Waters hands, isn’t a dainty personality trait; it’s a scar with manners. “I have reason to be shy” flips the usual framing. She doesn’t apologize for being guarded, and she doesn’t romanticize it either. The sentence reads like a quiet refusal to perform openness on demand - a boundary set in plain language. Then she lands the punchline that isn’t a punchline: “I’ve been hurt plenty.” Not once, not vaguely, but enough to make caution feel earned. “Plenty” is doing heavy lifting: it’s fatigue, it’s accumulation, it’s the kind of suffering that stops being a dramatic event and becomes weather.

Waters was a Black woman who came up through vaudeville, nightclubs, and Broadway in an era that commodified her voice while policing her life. Fame didn’t insulate her; it exposed her. The entertainment economy asked performers, especially women, to be endlessly available - emotionally, socially, sexually - while offering little protection when audiences, managers, press, or partners took what they wanted. In that context, shyness becomes strategy: a way to keep some part of yourself unbought.

The line also carries a performer’s double consciousness. Waters spent her career communicating feeling for a living; here she hints at the cost of that fluency. It’s a small act of self-authorship: she names the wound without narrating it, claims the right to privacy without pretending she’s untouched.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Ethel. (2026, January 17). I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/

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Waters, Ethel. "I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ethel Waters (October 31, 1896 - September 1, 1977) was a Musician from USA.

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