"I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty"
About this Quote
Waters was a Black woman who came up through vaudeville, nightclubs, and Broadway in an era that commodified her voice while policing her life. Fame didn’t insulate her; it exposed her. The entertainment economy asked performers, especially women, to be endlessly available - emotionally, socially, sexually - while offering little protection when audiences, managers, press, or partners took what they wanted. In that context, shyness becomes strategy: a way to keep some part of yourself unbought.
The line also carries a performer’s double consciousness. Waters spent her career communicating feeling for a living; here she hints at the cost of that fluency. It’s a small act of self-authorship: she names the wound without narrating it, claims the right to privacy without pretending she’s untouched.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Waters, Ethel. (2026, January 17). I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/
Chicago Style
Waters, Ethel. "I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have reason to be shy. I've been hurt plenty." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-reason-to-be-shy-ive-been-hurt-plenty-47305/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





