"I have three kids and a wife, and any moments that aren't dedicated to working on this film in some way, or family, are immediately reserved for sleep"
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The intent is partly defensive and partly devotional. Defensive, because the quote preemptively answers the question every working parent gets: Where do you find the time? Devotional, because it positions the film as a mission that demands total buy-in, the same way parenting does. The rhetoric is careful: he doesn’t say the film competes with his wife and kids. He says the remaining moments are "dedicated" to the film "in some way", a phrase that expands the job beyond the office into the mental background hum - story problems solved in the shower, shots imagined while loading the dishwasher.
In context, it lands as a quietly bracing counter-myth to the romantic idea of animation as playful doodling. Bird, an animator-director often mislabeled a simple "cartoonist", points to a creative industry built on relentless iteration and leadership. The subtext is also cultural: ambition is being justified through family language, as if the only acceptable reason to disappear into work is that you’re simultaneously doing the responsible, adult thing at home. It’s hustle culture, but with a wedding ring and a bedtime routine.
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Bird, Brad. (n.d.). I have three kids and a wife, and any moments that aren't dedicated to working on this film in some way, or family, are immediately reserved for sleep. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-three-kids-and-a-wife-and-any-moments-that-41766/
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Bird, Brad. "I have three kids and a wife, and any moments that aren't dedicated to working on this film in some way, or family, are immediately reserved for sleep." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-three-kids-and-a-wife-and-any-moments-that-41766/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have three kids and a wife, and any moments that aren't dedicated to working on this film in some way, or family, are immediately reserved for sleep." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-three-kids-and-a-wife-and-any-moments-that-41766/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.




