"I have to live for others and not for myself: that's middle-class morality"
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The subtext is that the Victorian bourgeoisie made a religion out of being useful: to family, to employer, to "society". Live for others, pay your debts, keep your appetites discreet, prove you deserve comfort by suffering in public. Shaw, the socialist playwright and professional heretic, treats that ethic as a mechanism of control. It makes people police themselves, turning the fear of seeming selfish into a reliable engine for conformity and labor. If you can be shamed into living for others, you can be managed without a whip.
The cynicism lands because Shaw doesn't deny that responsibility exists; he questions who gets to define it and who benefits. "Others" is conveniently vague - a spouse, children, neighbors, the boss, the nation - anyone can step into that blank and demand your life as tribute. In Shaw's dramatic universe, moral slogans are rarely innocent; they are stage props. This one is a prop that keeps the set standing, even as it quietly suffocates the actors.
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