"I have to say that I got off very easy. There were incidents"
About this Quote
The second sentence tightens the screw. “There were incidents” is bureaucratic diction, the phrase you’d expect in an HR memo or police report, not in a personal reckoning. That chilliness is the point. It’s a protective move: name nothing, invite no cross-examination, keep the narrative intact. The vagueness creates a negative space the audience fills with its own assumptions, which can be more powerful than explicit detail and safer for someone whose visibility comes with scrutiny, disbelief, and the pressure to be “inspirational.”
Culturally, it reads like a negotiation with celebrity confession culture. We live in an era that rewards oversharing, but also punishes specifics with lawsuits, backlash, and voyeurism. Ashley’s line splits the difference: it acknowledges damage without turning pain into content. The intent isn’t to shock; it’s to signal, quietly, that the polished public story has bruises underneath.
Quote Details
| Topic | Tough Times |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashley, Maurice. (2026, January 15). I have to say that I got off very easy. There were incidents. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-say-that-i-got-off-very-easy-there-were-171090/
Chicago Style
Ashley, Maurice. "I have to say that I got off very easy. There were incidents." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-say-that-i-got-off-very-easy-there-were-171090/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have to say that I got off very easy. There were incidents." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-say-that-i-got-off-very-easy-there-were-171090/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






