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Love & Passion Quote by Dusty Springfield

"I have tried sex with both men and women. I found I liked it"

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It lands with the blunt confidence of a woman refusing to be edited. Dusty Springfield isn’t offering a manifesto or a sob story; she’s offering a report: I experimented, I paid attention to my own pleasure, and the results were good. That matter-of-fact cadence is the point. In an era when queer desire was routinely framed as tragedy, pathology, or scandal, Springfield strips away the melodrama and treats bisexual experience as ordinary appetite.

The subtext is control. “Tried” signals agency rather than confession; it’s the language of someone testing a boundary on her own terms, not being “converted” or corrupted. “Found I liked it” is even sharper: pleasure becomes evidence, not something to apologize for. There’s a sly refusal embedded here, too, of the demand to pick a side. The quote doesn’t argue for identity labels; it sidesteps them by foregrounding desire as lived fact.

Context does the heavy lifting. Springfield was a major pop voice in a culture that sold female singers as palatable fantasies while policing their private lives. For a musician whose career depended on public affection, candor like this carries professional risk. That’s why the line still pops: it models a kind of pre-stonewall pragmatism that feels startlingly modern. No poetry, no hedging, just a cool, adult insistence that satisfaction is a valid credential.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Springfield, Dusty. (2026, January 15). I have tried sex with both men and women. I found I liked it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-tried-sex-with-both-men-and-women-i-found-86987/

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Springfield, Dusty. "I have tried sex with both men and women. I found I liked it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-tried-sex-with-both-men-and-women-i-found-86987/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have tried sex with both men and women. I found I liked it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-tried-sex-with-both-men-and-women-i-found-86987/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Dusty Springfield (April 16, 1939 - March 2, 1999) was a Musician from United Kingdom.

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