"I haven't changed much, over the years. I use less adjectives, now, and have a kinder heart, perhaps"
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Then comes the turn: “and have a kinder heart, perhaps.” That “perhaps” is classic Carter: a hedge that keeps sentiment from getting smug. Kindness is presented as a possibility, not a badge. Subtextually, she’s refusing the conversion narrative where age automatically delivers moral superiority. Instead, she offers a writer’s version of maturation: fewer modifiers, more mercy. The pairing matters. Reducing adjectives implies stripping away habitual judgments - the lazy labels and knee-jerk intensifiers that turn people into types. A “kinder heart” follows naturally when language stops doing gratuitous work.
Contextually, Carter’s fiction is famous for its ruthlessness toward patriarchal myths and its sympathy for the bodies caught inside them. This line reads like a late-career calibration: keep the scalpel, lose the flourish; keep the critique, add tenderness. It’s not a softening of her politics so much as a refinement of her aim.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carter, Angela. (2026, January 18). I haven't changed much, over the years. I use less adjectives, now, and have a kinder heart, perhaps. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-changed-much-over-the-years-i-use-less-3225/
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Carter, Angela. "I haven't changed much, over the years. I use less adjectives, now, and have a kinder heart, perhaps." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-changed-much-over-the-years-i-use-less-3225/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I haven't changed much, over the years. I use less adjectives, now, and have a kinder heart, perhaps." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-changed-much-over-the-years-i-use-less-3225/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





