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Love & Passion Quote by Lil' Kim

"I haven't had sex in eight months. To be honest, I now prefer to go bowling"

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Lil' Kim drops this line like a glitter bomb: blunt, funny, and strategically unbothered. The joke isn’t just that bowling is a sad substitute for sex; it’s that she’s choosing it. In a culture that treats celebrity desire as a public utility, she flips the script by making abstinence sound not virtuous or tragic, but practical - even preferable. That preference is the punchline and the power move.

There’s a sly bit of brand management here, too. Kim’s image has long been tethered to erotic bravado and unapologetic performance. By admitting a dry spell, she risks puncturing the myth. Instead, she controls the puncture: eight months becomes a comedic statistic, then she caps it with a deliberately unsexy hobby. Bowling is perfect because it’s aggressively ordinary, mildly dorky, and communal. It’s not “I’m focusing on my craft,” it’s “I’m rolling a ball at pins,” which makes the line feel human without surrendering authority.

The subtext reads like fatigue with the compulsory libido expected of her persona - and of women in hip-hop more broadly. Choosing bowling is choosing a lane where she’s not being appraised, chased, or narrated. It’s also a reminder that pleasure isn’t always erotic; sometimes it’s control, routine, and a clean release when everything lines up and crashes the way you intended.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kim, Lil'. (2026, January 16). I haven't had sex in eight months. To be honest, I now prefer to go bowling. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-had-sex-in-eight-months-to-be-honest-i-84629/

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Kim, Lil'. "I haven't had sex in eight months. To be honest, I now prefer to go bowling." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-had-sex-in-eight-months-to-be-honest-i-84629/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I haven't had sex in eight months. To be honest, I now prefer to go bowling." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-had-sex-in-eight-months-to-be-honest-i-84629/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Lil' Kim (born July 11, 1975) is a Musician from USA.

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