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Fatherhood Quote by Robert Pattinson

"I haven't really decided to be an actor yet! I started doing plays when I was about 15 or 16. I only did it because my dad saw a bunch of pretty girls in a restaurant and he asked them where they came from and they said drama group. He said, 'Son, that is where you need to go.'"

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It lands because it punctures the myth of the destined actor with something messier: horny paternal practicality and teenage drift. Pattinson’s opening move - “I haven’t really decided” - is a gentle act of self-sabotage, the kind of understatement that reads as both humility and a wink at how absurd celebrity narratives can be. He refuses the clean origin story. Instead, he offers a recruitment pitch delivered in the blunt language of straight male adolescence: go where the pretty girls are.

The subtext is less “my dad objectified women” than “the entertainment industry often starts as a social hack before it becomes an identity.” The father’s line is comic because it’s shamelessly transactional, but it also captures a real truth about how pathways into art aren’t always sacred. Sometimes they’re opportunistic, accidental, even a little ridiculous. That’s the point: talent can be real even if the origin is unserious.

Context matters, too. Pattinson’s fame arrived through franchises that built a gothic, romantic aura around him. This anecdote cuts against that manufactured mystique, rebranding him as the reluctant participant in his own legend. It’s also a savvy defense mechanism in a culture that loves to punish actors for ambition. By framing his entry as almost inadvertent, he lowers the stakes of ego while quietly asserting an actor’s most valuable skill: the ability to sell a story, even when it’s about not having one.

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Pattinson, Robert. (2026, January 16). I haven't really decided to be an actor yet! I started doing plays when I was about 15 or 16. I only did it because my dad saw a bunch of pretty girls in a restaurant and he asked them where they came from and they said drama group. He said, 'Son, that is where you need to go.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-really-decided-to-be-an-actor-yet-i-124351/

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Pattinson, Robert. "I haven't really decided to be an actor yet! I started doing plays when I was about 15 or 16. I only did it because my dad saw a bunch of pretty girls in a restaurant and he asked them where they came from and they said drama group. He said, 'Son, that is where you need to go.'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-really-decided-to-be-an-actor-yet-i-124351/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I haven't really decided to be an actor yet! I started doing plays when I was about 15 or 16. I only did it because my dad saw a bunch of pretty girls in a restaurant and he asked them where they came from and they said drama group. He said, 'Son, that is where you need to go.'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-havent-really-decided-to-be-an-actor-yet-i-124351/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Pattinson (born May 13, 1986) is a Actor from United Kingdom.

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