"I hope it's enabling me to deal with another human being who's more important to me than I am"
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The intent is practical, almost procedural: whatever “it” is - therapy, faith, sobriety, medication, discipline, time - he wants it to make him functional in the presence of someone he cares about. Not impressive, not heroic. Able to “deal with” them. That verb choice is stark, even a little bleak, suggesting strain and messiness rather than romance. He’s not idealizing connection; he’s acknowledging the friction that comes when another person’s needs become the center of your life.
The subtext lands in the blunt hierarchy: “more important to me than I am.” It’s devotion, but it also hints at guilt and self-erasure, the dangerous edge of caretaking where love can become a measurement of how little you require. Coming from an actor best known for long-running daytime drama, the line also reads as a quiet corrective to melodrama: the real stakes aren’t plot twists, they’re whether you can show up, day after day, without making your pain the main character.
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| Topic | Love |
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Zaslow, Michael. (2026, January 16). I hope it's enabling me to deal with another human being who's more important to me than I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-its-enabling-me-to-deal-with-another-human-104455/
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Zaslow, Michael. "I hope it's enabling me to deal with another human being who's more important to me than I am." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-its-enabling-me-to-deal-with-another-human-104455/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hope it's enabling me to deal with another human being who's more important to me than I am." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-its-enabling-me-to-deal-with-another-human-104455/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.






