"I hope that you will learn to take responsibility for your decisions. Don't take counsel of your fears"
About this Quote
The second sentence tightens the screw. “Don’t take counsel of your fears” is an arresting turn of phrase because it treats fear as a bad advisor rather than an emotion to be eliminated. Monson isn’t promising fear will vanish; he’s insisting it shouldn’t get a vote. The subtext is pastoral and practical: many people outsource responsibility by calling caution “wisdom,” postponement “prudence,” or conformity “peace.” Fear is noisy, persuasive, and often socially rewarded, especially in religious settings where risk can be misread as recklessness. He’s quietly disentangling spiritual discernment from anxiety.
Contextually, Monson preached to a community built around duty, service, and public commitments, often to young people standing at life-branching thresholds. The intent is to push listeners from passive waiting into deliberate choosing, while removing the most convenient alibi: “I was just scared.”
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monson, Thomas S. (2026, February 16). I hope that you will learn to take responsibility for your decisions. Don't take counsel of your fears. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-that-you-will-learn-to-take-responsibility-134799/
Chicago Style
Monson, Thomas S. "I hope that you will learn to take responsibility for your decisions. Don't take counsel of your fears." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-that-you-will-learn-to-take-responsibility-134799/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I hope that you will learn to take responsibility for your decisions. Don't take counsel of your fears." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-hope-that-you-will-learn-to-take-responsibility-134799/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




