"I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain"
About this Quote
The sharpness is in the word cling. Hate isn’t portrayed as a sudden blaze but as a dependency, a habit with a payoff. It gives structure to suffering. It offers a ready-made narrative (“they did this to me,” “they are the problem”) that spares you from the messier work of memory, responsibility, and vulnerability. Baldwin’s cynicism is compassionate: he’s not excusing hate so much as diagnosing why it persists even when it destroys the hater.
In Baldwin’s America - shaped by Jim Crow, northern hypocrisy, and the psychic violence of racial hierarchy - hate also functions as social glue. It stabilizes identity for people who can’t bear what equality would reveal: their own fragility, their own losses, their own moral compromise. That’s why he links hate’s disappearance to pain’s arrival. Remove the scapegoat and the bill comes due. The quote is a dare: stop outsourcing your hurt. Pay attention to it. Only then can anything actually change.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Me and My House (James A. Baldwin, 1955)
Evidence: I imagine that one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is that they sense, once hate is gone, that they will be forced to deal with pain.. Primary source: James Baldwin essay "Me and My House" published in Harper's Magazine (issue date: November 1955). The wording commonly reposted online often drops the word "that" after "imagine" and changes punctuation slightly; the sentence above is the exact phrasing as it appears in Harper's online archive of the original publication. Other candidates (1) Sunbeams (Sy Safransky, 1990) compilation96.9% ... I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense , once hate is gone ... |
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Baldwin, James A. (2026, February 12). I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-imagine-one-of-the-reasons-people-cling-to-31745/
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Baldwin, James A. "I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-imagine-one-of-the-reasons-people-cling-to-31745/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-imagine-one-of-the-reasons-people-cling-to-31745/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.












