"I just cleared the slate and thought of her as a mother and went from there"
About this Quote
The subtext is about refusing the easy labels that audiences and scripts hand women. So many female characters arrive pre-tagged: cold, ambitious, promiscuous, broken. Helgenberger’s method is to wipe away that moral handwriting and rebuild from a role that carries automatic social gravity. Motherhood, in storytelling, functions like a moral amplifier: actions become protective, desperate, controlling, sacrificial - all at once. By starting there, she doesn’t excuse the character; she humanizes her without laundering her.
Contextually, it’s also a sly comment on acting itself. “Went from there” suggests process over epiphany, a step-by-step reconstruction rather than a single emotional key. It’s the kind of practical empathy that cuts through melodrama: not “How do I feel?” but “What does she protect, and what would she risk to protect it?” In a culture that loves judging women’s choices, Helgenberger chooses to build an interior life first, verdicts later.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Helgenberger, Marg. (2026, January 16). I just cleared the slate and thought of her as a mother and went from there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-cleared-the-slate-and-thought-of-her-as-a-93113/
Chicago Style
Helgenberger, Marg. "I just cleared the slate and thought of her as a mother and went from there." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-cleared-the-slate-and-thought-of-her-as-a-93113/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I just cleared the slate and thought of her as a mother and went from there." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-cleared-the-slate-and-thought-of-her-as-a-93113/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




