"I just don't believe that you have to come in and insult people when you want to change things"
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The intent is tactical and moral at once. Tactically, insults harden identities. Once a person feels personally degraded, they stop listening for ideas and start defending their dignity. Movements then become theater: the “right people” cheering the right insults, the “wrong people” digging in, and nothing structural shifting. Morally, he’s gesturing at a journalistic ethic: you can be unsparing about institutions and still refuse to dehumanize the individuals caught inside them.
The subtext is also a critique of performative rebellion. Insulting your opponents can feel like progress because it produces instant emotional payoff - clarity, superiority, a clean villain. But Schanberg suggests that clarity is counterfeit when it substitutes for persuasion, coalition, and the messy patience that real reform demands.
Context matters: Schanberg’s career unfolded in an era when public trust in institutions was collapsing and media incentives were tilting toward heat over light. His line reads like a preemptive rebuttal to the pundit’s argument that brutality is the only honest language left. He’s betting, stubbornly, on a harder discipline: telling the truth without turning truth-telling into a sport of humiliation.
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"I just don't believe that you have to come in and insult people when you want to change things." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-dont-believe-that-you-have-to-come-in-and-166737/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








