"I just put on what the lady says. I've been married three times, so I've had lots of supervision"
About this Quote
The joke turns on a double dodge. On the surface, Sinclair plays the agreeable husband, the man who’s above vanity and grateful for guidance. Underneath, he’s scoring points with the old-fashioned audience pleasure of male self-deprecation that still keeps male power intact: women become the nags/wardens, men the charmingly incompetent subordinates. That’s the social alchemy here - humor that makes asymmetry feel cozy.
Context matters because Sinclair’s public image was the opposite of passive. This is the muckraker who exposed industrial exploitation and took aim at institutions that “supervise” workers into misery. By borrowing managerial language for romance, he collapses the distance between private life and the systems he wrote about, suggesting that governance doesn’t stop at the factory gate. Even if he intends it as a throwaway quip, the line quietly admits what his novels insist: power loves the everyday.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Sinclair, Upton. (2026, January 16). I just put on what the lady says. I've been married three times, so I've had lots of supervision. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-put-on-what-the-lady-says-ive-been-married-135932/
Chicago Style
Sinclair, Upton. "I just put on what the lady says. I've been married three times, so I've had lots of supervision." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-put-on-what-the-lady-says-ive-been-married-135932/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I just put on what the lady says. I've been married three times, so I've had lots of supervision." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-put-on-what-the-lady-says-ive-been-married-135932/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.






