"I just think that the only way we come to ourselves is through each other"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Come to ourselves” isn’t the same as “invent ourselves.” It implies a return, like there’s a truer version of you waiting on the other side of isolation. And “through each other” is deliberately unsentimental. It’s not “with each other,” which would suggest a cozy accompaniment. “Through” implies passage: other people are not accessories to selfhood but the medium that shapes it. You’re changed by the way you’re seen, challenged, loved, and occasionally failed.
Context gives it extra voltage. Sheen’s public persona has long blended performance with conscience, from playing moral authority figures to showing up in real-world activism. Coming from an actor, the quote also carries a meta-wink: acting is literally becoming someone else to better understand yourself, and it only works in relation to scene partners, audiences, the social air of a moment. In an era that markets “authenticity” as a solo project, Sheen is arguing that identity is a collective production - and that’s less comforting than it sounds, because it makes us accountable to one another.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sheen, Martin. (2026, January 17). I just think that the only way we come to ourselves is through each other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-think-that-the-only-way-we-come-to-67445/
Chicago Style
Sheen, Martin. "I just think that the only way we come to ourselves is through each other." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-think-that-the-only-way-we-come-to-67445/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I just think that the only way we come to ourselves is through each other." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-think-that-the-only-way-we-come-to-67445/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









