"I just want to make everybody feel what I'm singing. And just to relate to me and know that this has been dream since I was a little girl. I've worked so hard for this, and I just want them to connect with me"
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The subtext is about legitimacy in a machine that constantly withholds it. When Toscano adds “relate to me,” she’s asking for recognition not as a contestant or a product but as a person with stakes. Reality-TV pop culture (especially the American Idol ecosystem she’s associated with) turns artists into weekly storylines, edited arcs, and voting blocs. Saying “this has been a dream since I was a little girl” is a strategic invocation of origin myth, but it’s also a defense against cynicism: don’t reduce me to a single performance; I’ve been building toward this my whole life.
“Worked so hard for this” functions as a moral credential. Talent can be dismissed as luck; labor is harder to argue with. The final “connect with me” closes the loop, framing success as relationship rather than approval. She’s not asking to be crowned; she’s asking to be understood. In a culture that often treats singers as interchangeable voices, Toscano’s intent is to make her interior life the thing the audience can’t swap out.
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Toscano, Pia. (n.d.). I just want to make everybody feel what I'm singing. And just to relate to me and know that this has been dream since I was a little girl. I've worked so hard for this, and I just want them to connect with me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-want-to-make-everybody-feel-what-im-170279/
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Toscano, Pia. "I just want to make everybody feel what I'm singing. And just to relate to me and know that this has been dream since I was a little girl. I've worked so hard for this, and I just want them to connect with me." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-want-to-make-everybody-feel-what-im-170279/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I just want to make everybody feel what I'm singing. And just to relate to me and know that this has been dream since I was a little girl. I've worked so hard for this, and I just want them to connect with me." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-want-to-make-everybody-feel-what-im-170279/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.










