"I knew an actor's career goes up and down and back up again. Your standing in this business can't be your whole identity; otherwise, you're doomed"
About this Quote
The intent reads less like motivational talk and more like preemptive damage control. She’s naming the psychological booby trap of celebrity culture, where external metrics (roles, headlines, relevance) constantly re-rate you in public. If your inner life is fused to that rating, the inevitable “down” doesn’t just hurt your career; it erases your sense of who you are. “Otherwise, you’re doomed” lands hard because it’s not poetic. It’s clinical.
The subtext is also about power. Casting directors, executives, audiences, and algorithms can yank “standing” away overnight. Detaching identity from status is a way to claw back agency in an ecosystem designed to make you pliable. Coming from Kudrow, it carries extra context: a performer associated with a massively defining role who still built a post-Friends career by being selective, weird, and resilient rather than chasing constant validation.
It works because it refuses the fairytale of linear success. It’s not “stay humble.” It’s “build a self that can outlive the room’s applause.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Career |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Kudrow, Lisa. (2026, January 16). I knew an actor's career goes up and down and back up again. Your standing in this business can't be your whole identity; otherwise, you're doomed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-knew-an-actors-career-goes-up-and-down-and-back-107776/
Chicago Style
Kudrow, Lisa. "I knew an actor's career goes up and down and back up again. Your standing in this business can't be your whole identity; otherwise, you're doomed." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-knew-an-actors-career-goes-up-and-down-and-back-107776/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I knew an actor's career goes up and down and back up again. Your standing in this business can't be your whole identity; otherwise, you're doomed." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-knew-an-actors-career-goes-up-and-down-and-back-107776/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






