"I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women"
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The subtext is even louder than the pledge. Seacrest is responding to a culture that treated male queerness as both gossip commodity and career liability, especially for polished, mass-market hosts whose brand depends on being broadly consumable. The rhetorical question isn’t asked to explore nuance; it’s asked to shut down speculation while appearing reasonable. He’s saying: I’m progressive enough to have gay friends, but not so progressive that I’m willing to let you imagine I might be gay.
“I promise you” is the tell: a public oath offered to strangers who were never owed one. And “I very much love women” isn’t just orientation; it’s brand reinforcement, a signal to advertisers, middle-America viewers, and the gossip ecosystem that his desirability remains legible in conventional terms. The quote lands as a snapshot of a transitional moment: acceptance as social decor, queerness still treated as a reputational threat.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Seacrest, Ryan. (2026, January 16). I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-a-lot-of-gay-males-who-i-work-with-that-87862/
Chicago Style
Seacrest, Ryan. "I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-a-lot-of-gay-males-who-i-work-with-that-87862/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know a lot of gay males who I work with that are fantastic people and I love hanging out with them. But because I hang out and bring gay men into my life, does that mean that I'm gay? I promise you that I very much love women." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-a-lot-of-gay-males-who-i-work-with-that-87862/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





