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"I know he was definitely beaten by her. I saw it many times. But we had a different way of dealing with her. He'd let her have more and more booze until she passed out"

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Domestic violence is flattened into backstage gossip here, and that’s the point: Gest delivers cruelty with the offhand cadence of someone describing party logistics. “I know” and “definitely” posture as credibility, as if certainty makes the story useful rather than sordid. Then comes the queasy pivot: “But we had a different way of dealing with her.” That corporate-sounding “we” recruits the listener into complicity, turning a relationship’s terror into a team problem to manage.

The subtext is less about concern for the victim than about control and image. If “he was definitely beaten by her,” Gest frames the man as the harmed party, a reversal that can function as absolution: see, it’s messy on both sides. The follow-up method - “more and more booze until she passed out” - reveals a culture that treats a woman’s incapacitation as a solution, not an emergency. It’s not intervention; it’s sedation. The language carefully dodges accountability: no one “forces,” no one “drugged,” no one “endangered.” They “let” her drink, a verb that sounds permissive, even generous, while describing something predatory.

Context matters: Gest’s celebrity-world proximity to tabloid-famous relationships makes this feel like an anecdote told for shock value and insider cachet. The intent isn’t to protect anyone; it’s to perform access. What makes it work, rhetorically, is how it exposes the entertainment ecosystem’s moral anesthesia: violence becomes content, addiction becomes a tool, and “dealing with her” becomes a euphemism for erasing a person when she’s inconvenient.

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Gest, David. (2026, January 16). I know he was definitely beaten by her. I saw it many times. But we had a different way of dealing with her. He'd let her have more and more booze until she passed out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-he-was-definitely-beaten-by-her-i-saw-it-88002/

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Gest, David. "I know he was definitely beaten by her. I saw it many times. But we had a different way of dealing with her. He'd let her have more and more booze until she passed out." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-he-was-definitely-beaten-by-her-i-saw-it-88002/.

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"I know he was definitely beaten by her. I saw it many times. But we had a different way of dealing with her. He'd let her have more and more booze until she passed out." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-he-was-definitely-beaten-by-her-i-saw-it-88002/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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David Gest (May 11, 1953 - April 12, 2016) was a Celebrity from USA.

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