"I know I have sex appeal, but I've never felt like an actual sex symbol. Fans sometimes think I am. The majority of them are sweet about it, but occasionally somebody weird becomes totally fixated upon me"
About this Quote
The subtext is about control and misrecognition. "Fans sometimes think I am" quietly shifts agency away from her: this isn't her self-concept, it's a projection. Then she calibrates the fan relationship with real-world specificity. Most are "sweet", which reads like gratitude and also an adult understanding of parasocial intimacy before the term was common. But she doesn't romanticize fandom. "Occasionally somebody weird becomes totally fixated upon me" is blunt, almost weary, capturing the eerie imbalance of celebrity: strangers feel entitled to an imagined closeness that can tip into obsession.
Context matters because Teena Marie moved through spaces where image politics were intense and complicated - a white woman in Black music genres, a powerhouse vocalist and writer in an industry eager to market women through sex. This quote is her insisting: you can look, you can listen, but you don't get to own the narrative.
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Marie, Teena. (2026, January 15). I know I have sex appeal, but I've never felt like an actual sex symbol. Fans sometimes think I am. The majority of them are sweet about it, but occasionally somebody weird becomes totally fixated upon me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-i-have-sex-appeal-but-ive-never-felt-like-164595/
Chicago Style
Marie, Teena. "I know I have sex appeal, but I've never felt like an actual sex symbol. Fans sometimes think I am. The majority of them are sweet about it, but occasionally somebody weird becomes totally fixated upon me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-i-have-sex-appeal-but-ive-never-felt-like-164595/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know I have sex appeal, but I've never felt like an actual sex symbol. Fans sometimes think I am. The majority of them are sweet about it, but occasionally somebody weird becomes totally fixated upon me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-i-have-sex-appeal-but-ive-never-felt-like-164595/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



