"I know it's a lot harder for women who don't have enough help, but the truth is, no matter how much money you have, if you want to stay involved with your children and don't want to lose being a primary parent to them, you're still in the game"
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The subtext is about the quiet bargain celebrities and high-earning families often strike: you can buy childcare, tutors, drivers, meal prep, a whole scaffolding of support, but you can’t buy the relationship that forms in the unglamorous repetitions - school drop-offs, sick days, bedtime, the small crises that teach a child who shows up. Richardson also sneaks in a warning about narrative drift: if you’re not there, someone else becomes “primary,” and your role turns into a supporting part no matter how famous you are.
Coming from an actress, it reads like lived knowledge of travel schedules, long shoots, and the cultural script that working mothers should be grateful just to “balance.” She refuses the soothing myth of effortless help, insisting that involvement remains labor - and that opting into it is, inevitably, choosing the game.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Richardson, Patricia. (2026, January 15). I know it's a lot harder for women who don't have enough help, but the truth is, no matter how much money you have, if you want to stay involved with your children and don't want to lose being a primary parent to them, you're still in the game. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-its-a-lot-harder-for-women-who-dont-have-153130/
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Richardson, Patricia. "I know it's a lot harder for women who don't have enough help, but the truth is, no matter how much money you have, if you want to stay involved with your children and don't want to lose being a primary parent to them, you're still in the game." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-its-a-lot-harder-for-women-who-dont-have-153130/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know it's a lot harder for women who don't have enough help, but the truth is, no matter how much money you have, if you want to stay involved with your children and don't want to lose being a primary parent to them, you're still in the game." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-its-a-lot-harder-for-women-who-dont-have-153130/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.



