"I know that a man who shows me his wealth is like the beggar who shows me his poverty; they are both looking for alms from me, the rich man for the alms of my envy, the poor man for the alms of my guilt"
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Then he flips the script on the poor man. Poverty, displayed, can become a moral demand: “the alms of my guilt.” Not compassion, not solidarity - guilt, that sticky self-focused feeling that keeps the giver central. In Hecht’s view, both transactions are less about need than about power: who gets to set the terms of the encounter, who gets to walk away feeling enlarged.
The subtext is pointedly unsentimental. Hecht isn’t denying real suffering or real inequality; he’s suspicious of the ways those realities get aestheticized and weaponized in everyday life. “Shows me” is doing a lot of work: it implies a deliberate presentation, a curated scene. In the early 20th-century urban world Hecht knew - newspapers, nightlife, hustlers, patrons, immigrants, tycoons - display was a survival skill and a con. His cynicism has bite because it refuses to flatter the audience: if you’re being asked to envy or to feel guilty, you’re being recruited. The quote’s sting is its accusation that our reactions are often the very thing being bought.
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| Topic | Wealth |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hecht, Ben. (2026, January 16). I know that a man who shows me his wealth is like the beggar who shows me his poverty; they are both looking for alms from me, the rich man for the alms of my envy, the poor man for the alms of my guilt. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-a-man-who-shows-me-his-wealth-is-like-138074/
Chicago Style
Hecht, Ben. "I know that a man who shows me his wealth is like the beggar who shows me his poverty; they are both looking for alms from me, the rich man for the alms of my envy, the poor man for the alms of my guilt." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-a-man-who-shows-me-his-wealth-is-like-138074/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know that a man who shows me his wealth is like the beggar who shows me his poverty; they are both looking for alms from me, the rich man for the alms of my envy, the poor man for the alms of my guilt." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-a-man-who-shows-me-his-wealth-is-like-138074/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











