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Daily Inspiration Quote by Diana Ross

"I know that my fans want to know who I'm sleeping with, but it's really none of their business"

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Celebrity is a business built on intimacy it can never actually deliver, and Diana Ross is naming that scam with a velvet-gloved slap. The line opens with a concession - "I know" - that signals she understands the transaction: fans buy records, tickets, magazines; in return they feel entitled to the backstage version of her life. But the pivot is the real move. By repeating the desire plainly ("who I'm sleeping with") and then shutting it down ("none of their business"), Ross draws a hard border between the persona and the person, refusing the industry’s most profitable storyline: female sexuality as public property.

The subtext is gendered and strategic. Male stars can be "private"; women are interrogated, especially when their desirability is central to their branding. Ross, a Black woman who came up through an era when respectability politics and tabloid appetite both policed her image, is signaling control over the narrative. She’s not naïve about voyeurism; she’s resentful of its entitlement.

Context matters: Ross’s stardom was forged in the Motown assembly line and matured in the age of glossy celebrity journalism, when access was currency and gossip was marketing. The quote works because it refuses to pretend the audience is innocent while also denying them the payoff. It’s boundary-setting as performance: candid enough to feel honest, strict enough to reassert power. In a culture that confuses fandom with ownership, she’s reminding everyone what the stage has always been: an invitation, not a key.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Diana. (n.d.). I know that my fans want to know who I'm sleeping with, but it's really none of their business. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-my-fans-want-to-know-who-im-sleeping-41548/

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Ross, Diana. "I know that my fans want to know who I'm sleeping with, but it's really none of their business." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-my-fans-want-to-know-who-im-sleeping-41548/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know that my fans want to know who I'm sleeping with, but it's really none of their business." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-my-fans-want-to-know-who-im-sleeping-41548/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Diana Ross (born March 26, 1944) is a Actress from USA.

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