"I know that no one can really stop me but myself and that really no one can help me but myself"
About this Quote
The repetition of “really” is doing quiet work here. It anticipates the listener’s objections - bad luck, unfair systems, gatekeepers - and waves them off without arguing. “Really” signals a hard-earned belief, the kind you arrive at after watching other people wait for permission or rescue. It’s also a rhetorical pressure tactic: if you accept the premise, failure becomes less tragic than culpable.
Subtextually, there’s a protective edge. If no one can help you, you never have to admit dependence, or the vulnerability that comes with asking. That stance can be empowering in the way entrepreneurs like their narratives: clean, controllable, disciplined. It can also shade into a kind of moral isolation, where collaboration is tolerated but never trusted.
Context matters: mid-to-late 20th century American business culture lionized the self-made story, often as a rebuttal to uncertainty and bureaucracy. This quote fits that era’s faith in personal willpower as the ultimate lever - and its tendency to treat structural constraints as footnotes.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Zarlenga, Peter Nivio. (2026, January 15). I know that no one can really stop me but myself and that really no one can help me but myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-no-one-can-really-stop-me-but-myself-170490/
Chicago Style
Zarlenga, Peter Nivio. "I know that no one can really stop me but myself and that really no one can help me but myself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-no-one-can-really-stop-me-but-myself-170490/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know that no one can really stop me but myself and that really no one can help me but myself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-no-one-can-really-stop-me-but-myself-170490/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










