"I know that people think I'm sexy and I am looked at as that. It is cool with me. It's wonderful to have sexy appeal. If you embrace it, it can be a very beautiful thing"
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The subtext sits in the distinction between being made sexy and having "sexy appeal". The first is something done to you; the second is something you wield. That shift mattered in the late-90s/early-2000s pop machine, when young women were marketed through contradiction: be innocent but available, controlled but "natural", provocative but not "too" aware. Aaliyah threads the needle by making awareness the point. She’s not performing naivete to make her desirability palatable.
The line "If you embrace it" is the tell. This is an argument for consent and self-authorship in a culture that often treats women’s bodies as public property, especially in music media. Calling it "a very beautiful thing" adds another layer: she’s reframing sexiness as aesthetic and personal, not merely transactional. In retrospect, it reads like an early blueprint for a healthier kind of pop sensuality - one that insists confidence isn’t the same as availability, and that agency can be quiet, not just loud.
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Aaliyah. (2026, January 16). I know that people think I'm sexy and I am looked at as that. It is cool with me. It's wonderful to have sexy appeal. If you embrace it, it can be a very beautiful thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-people-think-im-sexy-and-i-am-looked-138417/
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Aaliyah. "I know that people think I'm sexy and I am looked at as that. It is cool with me. It's wonderful to have sexy appeal. If you embrace it, it can be a very beautiful thing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-people-think-im-sexy-and-i-am-looked-138417/.
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"I know that people think I'm sexy and I am looked at as that. It is cool with me. It's wonderful to have sexy appeal. If you embrace it, it can be a very beautiful thing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-that-people-think-im-sexy-and-i-am-looked-138417/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







