"I know there are nights when I have power, when I could put on something and walk in somewhere, and if there is a man who doesn't look at me, it's because he's gay"
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The intent is part boast, part confession. Turner is naming the intoxicating control of being the gaze’s preferred object, and she does it with the blunt comic certainty of someone who’s watched desire operate like a spotlight. The joke lands because it’s outrageous and because it’s recognizably close to how heterosexual spaces often function: men are expected to look, women are expected to be lookable, and any deviation needs an explanation. So she supplies one, and the punchline is as telling as it is mean: “he’s gay.”
That’s the subtext: sexuality becomes a convenient alibi to keep her narrative of irresistible femininity intact. It’s funny, but it’s also a snapshot of an era when gayness was commonly used as a rhetorical off-ramp - a way to protect straight norms from contradiction. Turner’s line flaunts the currency of being desired, while accidentally revealing the trap: the power depends on an audience trained to respond on cue, and it collapses into insecurity the moment the cue isn’t taken.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Turner, Kathleen. (2026, January 17). I know there are nights when I have power, when I could put on something and walk in somewhere, and if there is a man who doesn't look at me, it's because he's gay. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-there-are-nights-when-i-have-power-when-i-78800/
Chicago Style
Turner, Kathleen. "I know there are nights when I have power, when I could put on something and walk in somewhere, and if there is a man who doesn't look at me, it's because he's gay." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-there-are-nights-when-i-have-power-when-i-78800/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I know there are nights when I have power, when I could put on something and walk in somewhere, and if there is a man who doesn't look at me, it's because he's gay." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-there-are-nights-when-i-have-power-when-i-78800/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

