"I know what the attitudes of the readers are: These are guys who love women and respect women"
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The phrasing carries a carefully engineered vagueness. “Love” is intimate, emotional, unprovable. “Respect” is ethical, aspirational, equally hard to audit. Together they create a halo effect that outpaces any specific claim about editorial practices, labor conditions, or the power dynamics baked into selling women’s bodies as a lifestyle perk. The colloquial “guys” is also telling: it normalizes the audience as regular dudes, not ideologues, not predators, not even particularly political. Just men with good intentions and disposable income.
Context matters. Hefner’s tenure coincided with second-wave feminism’s aftershocks and the 1980s-90s corporate era, when brands learned to preempt critique by adopting the language of empowerment. The subtext isn’t “these men are virtuous” so much as “our product doesn’t harm anyone.” It’s a defensive charm offensive - positioning consumption as character, and desire as proof of respect.
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| Topic | Respect |
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Hefner, Christie. (2026, January 17). I know what the attitudes of the readers are: These are guys who love women and respect women. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-what-the-attitudes-of-the-readers-are-59918/
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Hefner, Christie. "I know what the attitudes of the readers are: These are guys who love women and respect women." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-what-the-attitudes-of-the-readers-are-59918/.
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"I know what the attitudes of the readers are: These are guys who love women and respect women." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-know-what-the-attitudes-of-the-readers-are-59918/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






