"I lead two totally separate lives. There are times when I have to slip into rock star mode"
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The phrase “slip into rock star mode” is doing quiet work. “Slip” suggests something practiced and almost involuntary, like muscle memory. “Mode” makes it sound technical, a setting you toggle on, not an identity you inhabit. That choice of language undercuts the myth that performers are always “on” because they’re naturally larger-than-life. Gore implies the opposite: the rock star persona is labor, a learned performance layered over a real person with limits.
Context matters. As Depeche Mode’s principal songwriter and a famously reserved presence beside a more frontman-coded public image, Gore embodies the tension between authorship and visibility. The songwriter’s job is intimate; the rock star’s job is spectacle. His admission hints at the psychic whiplash of moving between those roles: vulnerability in the studio, armor onstage; authenticity in creation, strategic confidence in presentation.
It resonates now because everyone with a public-facing job is being asked to perform a version of themselves, then pretend it’s effortless. Gore doesn’t sell glamour. He sells the coping mechanism.
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Gore, Martin. (2026, January 16). I lead two totally separate lives. There are times when I have to slip into rock star mode. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lead-two-totally-separate-lives-there-are-times-103395/
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Gore, Martin. "I lead two totally separate lives. There are times when I have to slip into rock star mode." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lead-two-totally-separate-lives-there-are-times-103395/.
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"I lead two totally separate lives. There are times when I have to slip into rock star mode." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-lead-two-totally-separate-lives-there-are-times-103395/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




