"I learned a long time ago from David Mamet to wipe your feet at the door, get it out on stage and then go about your life"
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The intent is partly practical advice, partly survival strategy. Theater rewards performers who can bleed on cue, night after night, without making the company live inside their feelings. "Get it out on stage" frames performance as containment: you can pour rage, grief, need into the work, but only within the borders of the scene. That boundary is the real subtext. It's not anti-emotion; it's pro-precision. The audience gets the catharsis. Your castmates get reliability. You get to keep a self that isn't permanently in costume.
Contextually, this is a veteran's response to a culture that fetishizes "bringing your whole self" to everything. LuPone is describing a kind of emotional hygiene that runs against the romantic myth of the tormented artist. Mamet's influence matters because his ethos treats acting less like therapy and more like craft: actions, not confessions. The kicker is "then go about your life" - a reminder that the healthiest performers aren't the ones who feel the most, but the ones who can close the door behind the applause.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
LuPone, Patti. (2026, January 16). I learned a long time ago from David Mamet to wipe your feet at the door, get it out on stage and then go about your life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-a-long-time-ago-from-david-mamet-to-134352/
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LuPone, Patti. "I learned a long time ago from David Mamet to wipe your feet at the door, get it out on stage and then go about your life." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-a-long-time-ago-from-david-mamet-to-134352/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I learned a long time ago from David Mamet to wipe your feet at the door, get it out on stage and then go about your life." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-a-long-time-ago-from-david-mamet-to-134352/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









