"I learned something from that. If someone asks me something that I really don't want to do, I say no. I have to trust that. And I'm not afraid to talk money"
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“If someone asks me something that I really don’t want to do, I say no” sounds simple until you place it in the machinery of show business, where access is currency and refusal can be punished as ingratitude. The subtext is about leverage: saying no isn’t just personal wellness, it’s a negotiation tactic, a refusal to be managed by fear. “I have to trust that” signals the psychological cost of boundaries. She’s describing an internal recalibration, choosing her own instincts over the industry’s constant second-guessing and flattery.
Then she lands on the real taboo: money. “I’m not afraid to talk money” is a cultural rebuke to the way women, especially Black women, are trained to treat compensation as unseemly - to be “grateful” for exposure, to accept opaque terms, to let other people define their worth. Ross isn’t making greed sound glamorous; she’s making clarity sound nonnegotiable. In a business built on illusion, she insists on the one thing that shouldn’t be imaginary: value.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ross, Diana. (2026, January 17). I learned something from that. If someone asks me something that I really don't want to do, I say no. I have to trust that. And I'm not afraid to talk money. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-something-from-that-if-someone-asks-me-41549/
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Ross, Diana. "I learned something from that. If someone asks me something that I really don't want to do, I say no. I have to trust that. And I'm not afraid to talk money." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-something-from-that-if-someone-asks-me-41549/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I learned something from that. If someone asks me something that I really don't want to do, I say no. I have to trust that. And I'm not afraid to talk money." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-something-from-that-if-someone-asks-me-41549/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




