"I learned to speak first, and then to sign. I have never really known what it was like to hear, so I can't compare hearing aids to normal hearing"
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The second sentence is the sharper blade. “I can’t compare hearing aids to normal hearing” rejects a whole market of assumptions: that technology restores you to baseline, that “normal” is a stable, universally accessible reference point, that the ideal endgame is approximation. Matlin isn’t criticizing hearing aids; she’s puncturing the way hearing people ask Deaf people to serve as product reviewers for a world they’re presumed to be missing. The subtext is a boundary: stop demanding a translation of her experience into your terms.
Context matters here because Matlin’s celebrity was built in an industry obsessed with legibility - award shows, talk shows, press junkets - all structured around sound. Her statement insists that Deafness isn’t a before-and-after story of loss and repair. It’s an origin story. The power is in its anti-drama: she doesn’t perform tragedy or triumph, just authority over what comparison is even allowed.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Matlin, Marlee. (2026, January 15). I learned to speak first, and then to sign. I have never really known what it was like to hear, so I can't compare hearing aids to normal hearing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-to-speak-first-and-then-to-sign-i-have-164226/
Chicago Style
Matlin, Marlee. "I learned to speak first, and then to sign. I have never really known what it was like to hear, so I can't compare hearing aids to normal hearing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-to-speak-first-and-then-to-sign-i-have-164226/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I learned to speak first, and then to sign. I have never really known what it was like to hear, so I can't compare hearing aids to normal hearing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-learned-to-speak-first-and-then-to-sign-i-have-164226/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.
