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Life & Mortality Quote by Mae West

"I like a man who's good, but not too good - for the good die young, and I hate a dead one"

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Mae West turns virtue into a flirtation trap: goodness is attractive, but only up to the point where it becomes inconvenient. The line works because it hijacks a familiar moral warning ("the good die young") and reroutes it toward self-interest. She’s not praising bad behavior; she’s puncturing the sentimental idea that purity is inherently desirable. In West’s world, too-good men are fragile, sanctimonious, or simply unavailable to pleasure. She wants someone decent enough to trust, but worldly enough to play.

The punchline, "and I hate a dead one", is classic West: a wink that doubles as a power move. It yanks the conversation from lofty ethics back to the body, to appetite, to practical outcomes. Desire becomes a kind of pragmatism. The subtext is that moral posturing is a luxury; the real stakes are chemistry, survival, and stamina. She’s also mocking the cultural script that asks women to reward "good men" as a civic duty. West reframes choice as consumer preference: don’t sell me sainthood when I’m shopping for a good time.

Context matters: West’s persona flowered in an era when female sexual agency was policed on-screen and off. In pre-Code Hollywood and vaudeville, she made innuendo into a battering ram against censorship and respectability politics. The joke isn’t just that she likes men with a little edge; it’s that she refuses to pretend her desire is morally educational.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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